Write a LiftingLetter
1. Think of the person and their core values:
- Reflect on what makes the person special. Consider their strengths, passions, and the values they hold dear.
- Think about your unique relationship with them and what aspects of their personality resonate with you the most.
2. What do you want to say to this person in your lifetime?
- Mention specific things you are grateful for in your relationship.
- Offer words of affirmation, highlighting their positive traits and the impact they have had on you and others.
3. What do you like about the person?
- Focus on genuine and specific compliments. Instead of general praise, mention particular actions or qualities that you admire.
- Include anecdotes that illustrate these qualities in action.
4. How do you feel about the person when they’re around you?
- Share how their presence makes you feel. Whether it’s comfort, joy, or inspiration, be open about the emotions they evoke in you.
- Discuss the positive changes or growth you’ve experienced because of their influence.
5. Do you remember some stories together that you are thankful for ?
- Recall shared experiences that were meaningful or joyful. Describe these moments to bring them to life.
- Mention any lessons or insights you gained from these experiences.
6. What helps you to get out of tough moments in life? Can you give advice?
- Share strategies that help you during tough times, whether it’s a hobby, a routine, or a mindset.
- Offer words of encouragement, reminding them of their strength.
7. Maybe you can offer something to do together?
- Suggest activities you could do together in the future. It can be as simple as a coffee or a walk.
- Offer your support in a practical way, like being available to talk or helping with a specific task.
Additional Tips:
- Be Genuine:
- Write from the heart. Authenticity resonates more than perfection.
- Don’t be afraid to show vulnerability. It can strengthen the bond and show that you trust them.
- Keep it Positive and Uplifting:
- While it’s okay to acknowledge difficult times, the main focus should be on positivity and support.
- Do not criticize anyone and do not judge anyone based on their opinion.
- Use a warm and personal tone:
- Write as if you are speaking to them directly. A conversational tone can make the letter feel more personal and intimate.
- Attach a foto to bring up a good moment from the past.
- Use some inspirational Quotes or Poems:
- Include quotes or excerpts from poems that are relevant to the persons situation. This can add an extra layer of inspiration.
- Explain why you chose that particular quote or poem and how it relates to the persons experience.
- Structure and Presentation:
- Start with a warm greeting and a brief introduction to set the tone.
- Organize your thoughts into paragraphs, each focusing on a different aspect you want to address.
- End with a heartfelt closing, reiterating your support and affection.
Example Structure:
- Greeting:
– “Dear …,” - Introduction:
– “I wanted to take a moment to share how much you mean to me and remind you of the incredible person you are.” - Body:
Reflect on Core Values and Qualities:
– “One of the things I admire most about you is your …”
Share Personal Stories and Compliments:
– “I remember the time when … . It made me realize ….”
Express Emotions:
– “When you’re around, I feel … . Your presence brings so much … .”
Offer Advice and Encouragement:
– “Whenever I’m feeling down, I find that … helps me. Maybe it could help you too.”
Suggest Future Activities:
– “Let’s plan to … . I’d love to spend more time together.” - Closing:
– “Remember, I’m always here for you.”
– “Thanks for beeing here.”
